12:54 AM
Sunday, July 8, 2012
Let go of those who left and appreciate those that made the effort to stay.
An advice i used to tell people all the time. But what happens when you're making an effort to stay while the other party keeps living in the past?
Do you endure and stay by their side or do you give up after being letdown so many times?
If you leave, they'll say things like "if you cared enough, you've stayed despite the obstacles you faced". But tell me, would you play mahjong knowing you CANT win? Would you take part in a fight after knowing you would lose?
Its not abt giving up before it began. we had all put in effort, We tried to keep you happy but if you refuse to make an effort on your part, i would rather walk away than silently watch you be in pain due to the past.
Theres only so much a human heart can take, and everyone should learn to give and take. You can't expect me to stay by your side and cover your back ALL the time and not have a single thank you or a single act of appreciation shown.
So in the end, the question is not whether i am able to persevere but rather are you willing to take a leap and start making changes and living for the future than living in the past?
